Kanji for Love — 愛
What 愛 means
愛 is read ai on its own and covers love in its widest sense: affection for a person, devotion to a craft, care for a place. It is a jōyō kanji taught in the fourth school year, written in 13 strokes, and it shows up in everyday words such as 愛情 (aijō, affection) and 愛犬 (aiken, a beloved dog).
Look at the middle of the character and you will find 心, the heart radical, tucked under a covering hand with a slow, dragging foot below it — the old reading of the shape is someone who cannot bring themselves to walk away. That buried heart is the part beginners lose first when they rush the stroke order.
愛 is not the only word for love. 愛 (ai) is steady and giving, the kind that lasts; 恋 (koi) is romantic longing, the pull toward one particular person. Together they form 恋愛 (ren'ai), romance as a whole. If you mean being in love rather than loving, 恋 sits closer to the feeling.
愛 is also a common given name — read Ai, Mana or Megumi depending on the family — which is why Japanese readers see it as warm and ordinary rather than dramatic.
Readings
- Kun
- いと.しい、かな.しい、め.でる、お.しむ、まな
- On
- アイ
Stroke order
Write 愛 in 13 strokes, following the tiles above in order — top to bottom, left to right.
愛 as a tattoo
愛 is the most requested kanji tattoo in the West, and unlike many single-character choices it really does read as “love” to a Japanese eye: no ambiguity, no unfortunate second meaning. What goes wrong is the drawing. Thirteen strokes leave room for a stray line, and a wobbly or mirrored 愛 is obvious to anyone who reads the language. Before you commit, draw it yourself on our board and compare it stroke for stroke with the animation above, then read the kanji tattoo guide.
Words with 愛
- 愛love, affection, care
- 愛するto love
- 愛しいlovely, dear, beloved
- 愛らしいpretty, charming, lovely
- 愛情love, affection
- 恋愛love, romance, tender passion
Keep exploring
Practice writing 愛 stroke by stroke, with spaced repetition and quizzes, in the app.